A Beginner's Guide To Orgasm

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Think orgasm think muscle spasms, immense pleasure and sexual euphoria. An orgasm can do several unique things to the system— make you happy, sleepy and relaxed. And leave you toppling over the edge.

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Sadly, not everyone knows how to achieve an orgasm. Some don't even know how it feels.

If this is you, read on to learn more about orgasms – what they are and how to achieve them.

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According to the American Psychological Association, an orgasm is when a person reaches peak pleasure. The body releases tension, and the perineal muscles, anal sphincter, and reproductive organs rhythmically contract.

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There are different types of orgasms.

• Clitoral orgasm
• Vaginal orgasm
• Blended orgasm
• Anal induced orgasm.

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Clitoral Orgasm

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This orgasm occurs after correctly stimulating the clitoris. A clitoral orgasm is felt on the surface of the body. Most people describe it as having a tingly sensation on the skin and brain. The body also experiences short spasms followed by a cooling sense of relief.

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To experience a clitoral orgasm, you have to dedicate your attention to the external part of the clitoris. It's located right on top of the vulva.

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You can stimulate the clitoris with your hands, fingers, tongue or toys.

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When using your fingers, start by gently rubbing the clitoris in a slow circular motion. This will cause the vulva to get wet. You can also use lube for extra lubrication.

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As it starts to feel good, you can increase your pace by rubbing faster and pressing the clitoris down. Find a pace that's not too rough for you and maintain it.

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When you start feeling tension building up, you can increase your pace. Sometimes you can even become aggressive if that works for you. In a matter of minutes, you should feel an explosive climax.  

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Vaginal Orgasm

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Vaginal orgasms occur due to vaginal penetration. You can experience vaginal orgasm by stimulating the famous G-spot. This orgasm is followed by pulsation of the vaginal canal walls.

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Stimulate your wet vagina by penetrating it with a penis, finger, or toy. Target your belly button or upward from the inside whilst stroking. Doing this can help you reach your G-spot, which feels amazing for most people.

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You can try different styles to exert pressure on the G-spot. When you find one that feels great, repeat it several times to cause a build-up of tension. This can eventually lead you over the edge to that glorious orgasm.

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Anal-Induced Orgasm

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An anal orgasm is felt inside the anal canal and around the anal sphincter. Muscle contractions inside the anus follow this orgasm.

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Blended Orgasm

This orgasm is the result of clitoral and vagina stimulation. When you stimulate the clitoris and vagina simultaneously, your body's response can be pretty explosive and mind-blowing.

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Blended orgasms would have your body experiencing tremors, trembling, shaking, and your eyes rolling into your head.

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It is important to remember that orgasms are not dependent. So you don't need a partner to achieve them.

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There's no particular way to enjoy sex, so feel free to explore and find what works best for you. Sometimes the only thing standing between you and the big O is you. Don't let anything stop you from experiencing one of the greatest pleasures you can experience.

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